thank you jason for your immediate reply. It was late last night and cloudy brain. I figured out the widgets put it in the wrong container instead of right sidebar I put them all my widget in the left sidebar, when I had selected the theme to have a right sidebar BRAIN FART.
Any way back to the first question that I am having trouble with when I go into settings and select reading settings. I select the static page > front page and the select drop down menu my home page does not show up.
this is where I know I screwed something up in the menu
strange that the url did not show up here it is again
remember it is password protected users and tas2012